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December 5, 2025 by Laura Gilbert Gerber

6 Questions to Ask a New Therapist

Starting individual therapy is a big step toward better mental health. But finding the right personal therapist to accompany you on your self-betterment journey isn’t just about availability—it’s about fit. Asking the right questions at your first appointment can help you feel confident that you made the right choice. This selection is a good place to start! 

What to Ask During Your First Therapy Session

Before you dive into sharing your story, take the opportunity to learn about your therapist’s approach and experience. Here are six valuable questions to guide that first conversation: 

  1. What’s your experience working with clients in my situation? 

  2. What therapeutic approaches do you use most often? 

  3. How do you typically structure sessions? 

  4. What are your expectations for your clients during the therapy process? 

  5. How do you track progress or know if therapy is working? 

  6. Are there any topics you don’t feel qualified or comfortable to discuss? 

These questions can reveal how your therapist communicates, what tools they use, and whether their style feels like a match for your goals and comfort level. You don’t need to feel chemistry immediately, but a sense of safety and mutual understanding is key. 

Choosing the Right Personal Therapist Matters

You don’t have to settle for the first person who can see you. In fact, it’s perfectly normal to “interview” a few therapists before choosing one. A good fit helps you open up and trust the process of individual therapy. If a therapist can’t answer your questions clearly or makes you feel uncomfortable, it’s okay to keep looking. 

Start the Conversation That Could Change Your Life

Ready to connect with a personal therapist who meets you where you are? We have options. Reach out today to find the right individual therapy provider for your needs! 

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